Monday, October 1, 2007

October Theme: Cemeteries and Tombstones--Meet James B. and Elizabeth Stephens of Lone Fir Cemetery

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According to the Friends of Lone Fir Cemetery: "James B. Stephens came to Oregon in 1844 and operated the historic Stark Street ferry on the Willamette River in Portland. James and Elizabeth Stephens were married more than 57 years when she died in 1887. The grieving widower is said to have had the couple's photograph taken a few years before her death. Until his death two years later, James was able to visit here and imagine again holding the hand of his dear wife."

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Please go to my other blog, Mama and Me from PDX, for the story of how I found the Stephens' wonderful tombstone and lots more photos of interesting sights I happily came upon at Lone Fir, including a tombstone-eating tree as well as other tombstones, both old and new, and a really big cedar tree. Plus, there's some additional information about the cemetery below, after the list of monthly theme links.

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I found this great information about James B. Stephens and his original connection to what is now Lone Fir Cemetery at www.metro-region.org, including this explanation of what Metro is: Metro protects open space and parks, plans for land use and transportation, and manages garbage disposal and recycling for 1.3 million residents ... Metro is the directly elected regional government that serves more than 1.3 million residents in Clackamas, Multnomah and Washington counties, and the 25 cities in the Portland, Oregon, metropolitan area.

Lone Fir Pioneer Cemetery

Located between Southeast 20th and 26th avenues and Morrison and Stark streets in Portland - Founded in 1855, 30.5 acres

In 1854, J.B. Stephens sold his farm, located a few miles east of the small town of Portland, to Colburn Barrell. On the property was the grave of Stephens' father, Emmor, who died in 1846. Barrell agreed to maintain the grave site.

Colburn Barrell was a partner in a passenger steamship line between Portland and Oregon City. On April 8, 1854, the boiler of their steamship Gazelle exploded while moored near Oregon City. The accident killed several people, including Barrell's business partner, Crawford Dobbins, and a passenger. Barrell buried the victims near Stephens and set aside 10 acres as a cemetery. He named the cemetery Mt. Crawford in honor of his friend, Crawford Dobbins.

By 1866, 20 more acres were added to the original cemetery. Burial plots sold for $10. Colburn thought the cemetery should be owned by the city of Portland and offered it to the city for $4,000. The City Council turned down the offer, citing the location was too far from town. There were no bridges crossing the Willamette River, and the mule-powered Stark Street ferry was slow. Coupled with muddy roads, a funeral procession would be a weary trip at best. The cemetery was eventually sold to Portland investors in 1866 and the name changed to Lone Fir Cemetery for the solitary tree standing on the site.

Today, Lone Fir Cemetery is a wooded, landscaped arboretum in the heart of Portland. More than 25,000 people are buried here, from the familiar (Curry, Dekum, Hawthorne, Lane, Lovejoy, Macleay) to the unknown. Decay, neglect and poor record keeping in the early years have led to an estimated 10,000 unknown graves. A visit to Lone Fir Cemetery will reveal the region's rich history.

"All nations are represented, all grades of society, all states of wealth and standing. Rich lie here and poor, employer and employee, those with virtue and those without. Death has a way of banishing snobbishness, of cultivating comradeship."
—D.A. Lund, Lone Fir: Silent City of the Dead

33 comments:

Sally said...

That's a great story!

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Fénix - Bostonscapes said...

Poor man, he must've felt completely lost without her after 57 years together. Can you imagine? Great post.

Kate said...

You posted a great selection of photos for this theme day.

Unknown said...

Great photos, and I like how you included the story.

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Anonymous said...

Awesome story.

pusa said...

what a very sweet story! great photo!

R&R said...

Have to say that I find the image a little spooky. But the pics and the story are wonderful.

Jilly said...

What a great story and eye-catching photo. That's some gravestone.

~tanty~ said...

Great choice!
Happy DP Theme!

Anonymous said...

What a fantastic post. I learned more about Portland and your Lone Fir Cemetery and some of the early residents there than I expected. Nice post. Good research. Well written and lovely photos.

Thanks too for your visit to my blogs.

Olivier said...

vraiment tres surprenant ce tombeau. histoire tres intéressante


really very surprising this tomb. very interesting history

dot said...

Nice post Lynette! I love the tombstones but I would come back and haunt my husband if he put my picture on one. lol

NorthBayPhoto said...

Fantastic images and wonderful collection of information to go along with it.

Mary Stebbins Taitt said...

WOW! Very striking! Very interesting. How sad to lose your companion of 57 years! What a wonderful tribute.

And how fun of you to capture these so nicely and share them with us.

Darn, I forgot to sign up for theme-day this time.

Sasha said...

Awww, his love for his wife is so sweet.

Beautiful shots!

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Denton said...

Wonderful romantic story. I did not notice that they were holding hands until I read your comments ... Personally I don't think I want my headstone engraved until after I pass on. Let along a sculpture of me. I don't think I want to be part of a cemetery any sooner than necessary.

Clueless in Boston said...

Great story and nice photos!

Marie said...

Wonderful photos, Lynette, and a great history lesson too.

Felicia said...

This is the most interesting cemetery today. I loved the additional photos, especially the Scrabble grave marker - wow!

Kim said...

This is such a great post for our theme day. I love all the detail and the extra photos to illustrate the story and see more of this cemetery. How sad that over 10,000 interred there are forgotten. . .not as bad as Sand Diego's story, though. . .now that was tragic to me. I spend a lot of time in cemeteries doing historical research, and I can see you feel as I do when you find these stories there and look up what you can find about what you saw. Great job.

BTW, I just drove through your fair city weekend before last and have some photos from the road (including bridges across the Willamette) posted on my Flickr site. Best to you!
-Kim
http://seattle-daily-photo.blogspot.com

isa said...

Is it me, or does the couple resemble each other? ;-)
Great post, Lynette, and a sweet story of a long-lasting (ever-lasting?)love...

iBlowfish said...

From the carve in the wall, face Mr Stephens looks friendly person. I haven't seen this in any cemetery on this October theme. Beautiful shot.

Anonymous said...

I have no doubt that James B would prefer not to be remembered as a "cutie"--even less doubt that Elizabeth would frown on me for it. :) Lovely photos, and a very touching story.

Thanks for your visit to Arlington DP!

Neva said...

What a great monument to love....I have not seen too many tombstones engraved with pictures but I have seen a Lithuanian Cemetery with their faces on the tombstones. I will try to get a picture sometime.

Unknown said...

Interesting read about the history!

Happy Theme Day!

Annie said...

Hi Lynette,

Here is a case of two who began to look alike, after all their years together. Check those similar square jaws.

Z said...

A lovely love story, although the engraved stone is a bit eerie to me.

Steve Cuddihy said...

haha! This is fantastic and I believe the most surprising tombstone I've seen in the theme day.

• Eliane • said...

Love the whole story that goes with it. At first, I had to smile at their funny looking faces. By the end of your commentary, I found them very cute. Lovely post, Lynette.

david mcmahon said...

That's such a compelling post.

JaamZIN said...

this is very impressive:)

Mandy said...

I like the frieze; it is an excellent memorial.

Anonymous said...

How sweet! That's what I'd call true love.

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